Female Ejaculation is one of the Great Sexual Wonders of the World,
then Deborah Sundahl is Wonder Woman. In her book, Female Ejaculation
and the G-Spot (Hunter House Press), she invites all women and
their lovers to enjoy this once esoteric phenomenon that is just
now flooding the world with pleasure.
your champagne! Gentlemen: Get ready to
by a variety of names, from the poetic to the worshipful to the
silly to the crass, "Female Ejaculation" is variously called the
Nectar of Aphrodite, the Fountain of Venus and the Champagne of
Sex. I call it the Geyser of Love, a sparkly spritz of pussy perfume,
a waterfall of womanhood, a broken fire hydrant, a vaginal hurricane,
a rainforest treat, a baptismal sexual revelation. Yes indeed,
it's Holy Water, Brothers and Sisters, and it's good for the soul,
not to mention the skin.
Spurting! Spraying! Splashing.
Gushing... Female Ejaculation is carnal proof that a woman's ability
to hit her lover right between the eyes with her orgasmic juice
is equal to that of a man. Often, female ejaculation is even more
profuse and forceful than the male variety. Thus, its importance
is not only erotic, but political, as it is tangible--not to mention
tasty--evidence of female sexual power.
Sisters: One political message of female ejaculation is: lay down
your arms, pull off your panties and shoot the gun between your
legs! And while you're at it, you could try getting your man to
lay down his arms by baptizing him in the healing holy waters
of your liquid love. Hey, couldn't hurt to try. That means you,
Sister Laura Dubya B. On second thought, you could just piss on
Ejaculation" is variously
called the Nectar of Aphrodite,
the Fountain of Venus and
the Champagne of Sex. I call it
the Geyser of Love, a sparkly spritz
of pussy perfume, a waterfall
of womanhood, a broken fire hydrant,
a vaginal hurricane, a rainforest treat,
a baptismal sexual revelation.
Yes indeed, it's Holy Water,
Brothers and Sisters,
and it's good for the soul
of urine, of course, that's what the naysayers say this is. Over
the years, the subject of G-spot female ejaculation has stimulated
a thunderstorm of debate among sex researchers, doctors, sex educators
and porn stars. Detractors insist that there is no G-Spot, that
women who squirt are just peeing while they're coming, and all
this hoopla over G-spot female ejaculation is nothing but a glorified
of us who have experienced the power and glory of G-spot female
ejaculation-giving or receiving--know that it exists. This is
not a matter of faith, Brothers and Sisters, this is the science
of sex. We're still waiting for a detailed chemical analysis by
a chemical lab (and I hereby offer my studio
as a place for any reputable chemist to gather specimens). But
in the meantime, we're not holding back the floodgates. Those
of us who "believe" in squirting believe it because we can see
it, we can smell it (and it doesn't smell like pee!), we can taste
it, and we can feel it. And it feels good. Yes, it does.
this *feel-good* aspect is perhaps another reason that the naysayers
have held sway over the years. Female ejaculation is a pure recreational
pleasure that has no direct role in procreation, except that women
who squirt may, over the millennia, have procreated more, simply
because we tend to enjoy sex more.
history, prominent scientists and philosophers
have reported experiencing the forceful release of fluids from
the vagina during sex. We can begin with the Western world's most
famous ancient scientist, Aristotle,
who wrote about the phenomenon of women's vaginal expulsions during
sex, maintaining that they did not have the appearance or aroma
of urine, nor did they stain the lady's toga.
description of female ejaculation came from a 17th century physician
from the Netherlands (just going to show that the Dutch have been
open-minded about sex for a long time). Dr. Regnier DeGraaf wrote
about the urethra being pierced by large ducts through which fluids
are discharged, "occasionally in large quantities." Sounds like
Mrs. DeGraaf must have been soaking the sheets.
of us who "believe"
in squirting believe it
because we can see it,
we can smell it
(and it doesn't smell like pee!),
we can taste it, and we can feel it.
And it feels good. Yes, it does.
a German obstetrician, Dr. Ernest Grafenberg, found a spot within
the vagina which he soon named after himself: the G-spot. He discovered
that stimulation of the G-spot could lead to expulsion of fluid
from the urethra. "Large quantities of a clear, transparent fluid
expelled not from the vulva, but out of the urethra in gushes."
Sounds like Mrs. G was a gusher And if it wasn't Mrs. G--well,
I won't go there.
Now we have
another important pioneer upon the slippery path of G-spot female
ejaculation: Deborah Sundahl, whose discovery of her own ejaculate
in a puddle on the floor led her on a wild, soaking wet journey
into the center of an orgasmic storm.
the master, not just of the physical side (though she's quite
a long distance squirter herself), but of understanding and explaining
how G-spot female ejaculation works in terms of the body, the
mind and the soul. In fact, I first heard the term "G-spot female
ejaculation" from Deborah herself back in 1992 at a Lifestyles
Convention, having wandered into her seminar quite by accident.
I had never heard of such a thing as women having "squirting"
orgasms, at least not on purpose. Neither had anyone else in the
Now it seems
like everybody's squirting, or trying to squirt, or trying to
get their lover to squirt, or asking about how to do it. And Deborah
is the Godmother of the Squirting Mafia, the Go-To-Gal of the
21st Century Explosion in Female Ejaculation.
years, she's produced three videos on the subject. And now, finally,
she has written a book. Though it goes into some of the history
and mythology of female ejaculation, it is primarily a "how to"
book, and in this respect, I must give Female Ejaculation &
the G-Spot a resounding and very personal endorsement. What I
mean is, it works!
about sex from books isn't for everybody. But books have always
helped me with my own sexuality. I learned how to have my first
orgasm from Betty Dodson's Sex for One (then entitled Liberating
Masturbation). Now I've learned how to squirt from Deborah's book.
I must admit that hosting a "Squirt Salon" with her on my show
also helped, and so does having a husband who adores it. But it
was the book that got me started.
ejaculation is a pure
recreational pleasure that has
no direct role in procreation,
except that women who squirt may, over the millennia,
have procreated more,
simply because we tend to
enjoy sex more.
also confess that I'd ejaculated before, but only with literal
hands-on help from another expert and friend, Axel (The G-Man)
Braun. Never had I done it on my own, at least not voluntarily.
Deborah's book taught me how to do to that; that is, how to make
myself squirt. My very first self-propelled female ejaculation
experience, with Deborah's book in one hand as my other hand rubbed
and pressed my G-spot, soaked my panties and the towel I was sitting
on, and seemed to make the police helicopter circling above me
screech to a halt in the sky.
I've been able to squirt voluntarily during sex, and even on the
show. During our Squirt Salon, I soaked the cameraman. So did
my other guests, Squirting Stars Annie Body and Leila Swan.
also the type that learns sexual techniques from reading instructions
and ogling diagrams, and if you really want to learn to squirt
or if you want to help your female lover to squirt, Deborah Sundahl's
Female Ejaculation and the G-Spot is the book for you (if you
prefer videos, you might want to check out our Squirt Salon).
I believe that any woman who really wants to squirt can do it.
But just because it's "natural" doesn't mean every woman can do
it without help. Just as many women, like me, need to learn how
to have an orgasm, most of us need to learn how to ejaculate.
And guys who are interested need to learn how to help.
As with any
kind of learning, the first thing you need is motivation. Some,
maybe most, women are just not motivated to do this, and that's
fine. You don't have to ejaculate to be a very happy, orgasmic,
sexual woman. Some women don't have time, of course. When you're
worried about where your next meal is coming from, squirting is
not at the top of your list of things to do. For some, it's "against
their religion" (which says only men should wear the pants and
do the squirting in the family). Some women think men don't like
it. Fact is that some men do; some don't. The ones that do tend
to be the kind that really enjoy and seek out women's pleasure,
and aren't too fussy about getting soaked.
of which, there are practical issues. Some women just don't like
sleeping on wet sheets. I confess this to be one of my own problems
with squirting regularly. Female ejaculate doesn't stain, but
it does tend to soak everything within a 1-6 foot radius; just
think of spilling a glass of water in bed. You can put a towel
down, but a really good squirt soaks right through the towel.
Best to do it in the bath, on a nice clean floor, on the roof,
or best of all, in a bed you won't be sleeping in that night.
was) Aristotle, who wrote about
the phenomenon of women's
vaginal expulsions during sex,
maintaining that they did not have
the appearance or aroma of urine,
nor did they stain the lady's toga.
G-spot female ejaculation is one of those decadent pleasures,
like fresh oysters, that require the right circumstances and preparation,
as well as post-pleasure clean-up. Is it worth it? Well, aren't
fresh oysters worth it, at least occasionally? Yes, they can be
bitches to crack open, but if you succeed, you have yourself a
real treat. So, isn't reaching a new height in sexual pleasure
worth a little effort? I think so. But then, I love fresh oysters.
At least, occasionally.
got the motivation, you might find yourself squirting like a sprinkler
system with just a little concentration and some good G-spot rubbing
sex. More likely, you'll need some instruction, which you can
obtain through books, videos, the personal touch, whatever works
for you. Maybe this little article is enough to get you going,
or perhaps you need to read Female Ejaculation & the G-Spot and/or
watch a video on the subject. Some of you may need more instruction
than others. Some of you may have pyschological or physiological
*learning disabilities* that plug up your porthole, so to speak.
Don't be discouraged. If you really want to squirt, eventually
you will. Every woman can. Most of us hold it back for myriad
reasons, good and bad, crazy and sane, conscious and unconscious.
But we can all squirt. Remember: the human body is about 75 per
cent H2O. It's just a question of letting a little out.
Brothers & Sisters, Lovers & Sinners. Squirt for joy!
Squirt for peace. Flood the world with pleasure. Cover the earth
in cum. At least, occasionally.
Dr. Susan Block is a sex educator, cultural commentator, host
of The Dr. Susan Block Show and author of The 10 Commandments
of Pleasure. Visit her website at http://www.drsusanblock.com
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